"As parents, when we find out that we're having a baby, we all start to dream & plan for our child's future. When our child is born in any way less than our perceived definition of "perfect", we grieve for the child we hoped & planned for. Some people, unfortunately, get stuck in one of the stages of grief, or circle around several stages, like a broken record, until they can get to the stage of acceptance"

Arlynn'e Whittingham